A piece of advice left by Wei qiujie’s death to overseas students

was confused all day for some reason. It may be that Hokkaido police released the DNA identification results of Wei qiujie, a female teacher of Fujian primary school who was found missing for more than a month. It officially confirmed that she had become a star, rather than a lovely girl beside her parents.

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from the disappearance of Wei qiujie to the discovery of a female body on the beach of banglu City, Hokkaido. I worked with many friends to reason, speculate, wish and expect, and finally failed to save her young life.

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although her relatives did not believe that Wei qiujie would choose to commit suicide, but the result of judicial identification belongs to drowning death, which is basically determined to be suicide.

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Japanese media reported that when Wei qiujie left Sapporo Hotel, he wrote a farewell letter to his parents. The letter reads, “I’m sorry, this is a letter of departure. Although I have lived for 27 years, I can’t go on working hard. If I’m not here, please don’t be upset. I will become a star to watch over you. I love you from my heart. ” From the death of Wei qiujie,

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, I came up with another question, that is, how should Chinese children who study in Japan spend the emotional vulnerability of studying abroad?

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were born on October 17, 1990 in Nanping City, Fujian Province. In 2013, Wei qiujie graduated from Sichuan University of business with a major in English. Last September 1st, she started a one year teaching practice at Shaowu Xincheng campus of Fujian experimental primary school. There, she teaches Chinese in grade three and English in grade six, each with a class. In January this year, she got the qualification certificate of primary and secondary school teachers and passed the open recruitment test for new teachers. She is about to become a teacher with a system. Her new life is beckoning to her. However, the new semester is about to begin, and students can no longer wait for the return of Mr. Wei.

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today, I read an article written by Liu Miao, a reporter of the Southern Metropolis Daily, saying that Wei qiujie is a very cheerful person on the surface, but behind the fun with friends, Wei qiujie also has a delicate mind and is not known by outsiders. She also had a fruitless love, but found that loneliness is the normal life, she said, “even so, please move forward with a smile.”.

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on August 21 last year, she wrote a diary on Douban. “Occasionally, something still needs to happen, in order to be more and more firm in her belief. I have my own way of living, one that I don’t regret, one that I am free with my nature. I don’t want all the noise. I just want to be alone. Then, I just want to be alone. ”

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are more than 1:00 a.m. on June 25 this year. She wrote on her microblog, “life is always very contradictory. No matter how lonely you are, you still need friends. With friends, you can’t solve loneliness. ”

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a month later, she came to Japan alone, to Hokkaido, and brought his collection of essays “the lion who loves salad”. Her farewell letter to her parents is contained in this book.

in the lion who loves salad, Murakami wrote, “it is because of unknown things that travel is interesting. If everything goes as planned and there is no accident, the trip will probably be meaningless. ”

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no one knows whether Wei qiujie has a resonance with them.

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Wei qiujie likes a song called “lost star”, which is the theme song of the movie “meet you again in New York”. In that song, British actress Keira Knightley sang in a low voice: “why is youth wasted in youth and ignorance? We are like lambs being hunted. We can only run blindly to find the meaning of existence. Maybe we are all lost stars, trying to dispel the darkness ahead… ”

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later, people found in the surveillance video in front of Sapporo Hotel, on the morning of July 22, when Wei qiujie left the hotel after writing her farewell letter, the iPad screen in her hand showed that she was listening to the song “lost star”.

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I think Wei qiujie is a very sensitive girl and a very artistic young woman. It can be seen from her growing up experience that she is not a girl who can read very well, but she is a girl who can struggle very hard. From Fujian to a common university in Chengdu, she tries hard to be an intern teacher, and then she tries hard to participate in the open recruitment examination for teachers. She can not easily get a formal teacher establishment. But suddenly, looking back, she finds that she is 27 years old and has no male My friend even has a formal job, but this job may not satisfy her very much. In a society full of competition and competition, Wei qiujie will feel that she is a laggard and a failure in life. Finally, I will have the choice to come to a foreign country alone and end my beautiful life in the beautiful Hokkaido. Because in the movie if you are the one, Liang Xiaoxiao, played by Shu Qi, wandered by the ahan Lake in Hokkaido and finally jumped into the sea in Hokkaido. Wei qiujie left Sapporo’s hotel and took a bus for more than 7 hours to Ahan lake and Yonglu city. The last road of her life was Liang Xiaoxiao’s road. However, the last result was that Liang Xiaoxiao was rescued by fishermen in Hokkaido and started her life again. When Wei qiujie was found by fishermen in Hokkaido, she had been dead for more than a month.

we feel sorry for Wei qiujie, and wish her to become a brilliant star in the sky and guard us. At the same time, her death has left a piece of advice to many peers, especially the children studying abroad: take responsibility, cherish life, cherish parents and family. Why the death of

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Wei qiujie shocked me so much is because several suicide cases of Chinese students in Japanese society in recent years made me think of the fragile feelings of young people and the pressure of studying abroad.

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last year, a netizen asked me to add wechat several times, saying that he asked me for help. I agreed to his request and added his microJust because you don’t succeed doesn’t mean you won’t succeed in your whole life. Today’s success does not mean that we will succeed in the future. You will feel relaxed and happy when you look at your life with your ordinary heart! Therefore, it is more important to cherish yourself and your family with a sense of responsibility. There will be no pie in the sky, but as long as you work hard, the pie will fall into your hands.

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